I'm totally rambling today... going all over the place and making myself totally crazy and more down
It's Valentine's Day tomorrow... and the fact that I'm going spend it alone, is making me jittery
I have no recollection if we spent Vday together last year
He asked me casually yesterday if I was going for exercise this week
I admit I got defensive and told him that I was and that he didn't have to worry as I wouldn't ask him to spend the day with me so he could just go ahead with his plans. He explained that it wasn't what he wanted to ask but frankly I didn't believe. I know it made me look really petty and unreasonable but I just couldn't help it.
How could you tell me that it's not working out with your wife, you guys have given up on rebuilding your marriage, you will tell her (whatever that meant) soon, that the two of you are strangers, you have already decided, I am your soul mate, but yet not ask me to spend Vday with you?
Do you know how much I wish you will ask me to spend it with you? My telling you otherwise, is a self-attempt to kill any hopes that I have. You are smart, I'm sure you figured it out already.
Do you know it's really hurting when you said that I was your soulmate, when I asked who I was exactly to him at this current time? I told him that it hurt but couldn't articulate exactly why I feel that way. I guess to me, being a soulmate means nothing at this point of time, I was once his love, someone he wanted to marry, soulmate and all, but down - I'm just a soul mate, nothing more.
The logical me knows that we are over already - he hasn't told me that he wants to be with me in a long time, that he loves me, wants to spend as much time texting/chatting with me. I know what this means already
Feeling really catty today and can't seem to hold back my snide remarks
I keep sneaking peeks at her WA status to check if they are chatting
It's obvious that they are 'chatting' a lot, yet he can tell me they are polite strangers.
I know I have and will continue to have major trust issues
Why can't you be truthful towards me for once?
Even if it's to tell me, that you hate me and want me off your back
Tears are welling up in my eyes as I type today's entry...
Why...why.. why...
He commented earlier that I ask a lot about his wife..
I asked him again shortly after if this was what he thought, and he changed his words to "not a lot".
In temper tantrum - I told him I'll stop asking and when I can stop doing that - he should know the reason why I stopped
C, do you know how much I care for you? How much I love you?
You said you have low self-esteem, always living to someone else's expectations, a listener to your friends, yet talking to me all the time etc
Do you know that I really care about how you feel, how you are doing and want you to be yourself? I wanna listen to you talk all day (even when you are repeating yourself, I sometimes keep quiet about it so that I can hear you talk?), I wanna hold your hand to calm you when you are angry , massage your shoulders/neck when you are stressed, kiss you to show you how much I care, hug you to show you I like you the chubby you and tell you I just love you the way you are despite how you feel about your physical self. I know you think you are boring and frankly you are but I just love this boring you
A fellow blogger posted this... I remembered the MV but never really listened to the lyrics... and when I did, my flood gate just opened. But I can't figure out if I'm Gotye or Kimbra cos I can relate to both lyrics
Somebody I used to know
But you didn't have
to cut me off
(you did this after Dday)
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
(how could you when you pursued me?)
No you didn't have to stoop so low
(Did you have to tell her that you never loved me, I was nothing?)
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
(yes I do, other times - I thought that you have really loved me)
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
(made me doubt myself - I'll never be good enough for anyone)
But I don't wanna live that way
(yes I am so tired...)
Reading into every word you say
(I want to go back to the past where I believed you wholeheartedly)
You said that you could let it go
(I know this means nothing to you)
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know